Co-dependency

Co-dependency is an interesting concept. People depend on people constantly, which is great. But Independency is the foundation on which co-dependency can coexist with. You have to be independent and happy individually to be able to be able to coexist in a co-dependent relationship. Before MOST people get married, they want to experience life individually. Once they are happy being alone, that is when they are ready to completeness. How ironic is that, yet it totally makes sense. Does it to you or is this just mum-bo-jumbo?